Feeling the need to drink/take drugs to lead to ?

If you're not ugly, and not shy, it shouldn't be hard for you to get with girls. Have you thought of the possibility that maybe you're an ? I'm not saying you are one, I'm just saying that maybe you come on too strong to girls and they're intimidated. But when you drink, you're looser and easier to be with. Idk please don't think I'm calling you an hole but it's just a suggestion.